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Bulldog- 09-12-2009
"You're too thick to marry" - SS babysnatching
Social workers banned a young woman from her own wedding in an extraordinary row over whether she is bright enough to get married. Kerry Robertson, who has mild learning difficulties, was told her wedding was being halted just 48 hours before she was to walk up the aisle with fiance Mark McDougall. Miss Robertson, 17, had bought her wedding dress and the couple had booked the church ceremony, bought the rings and organised a reception to be held last Saturday But two days before they were due to say their vows in front of 20 guests, social services told the bride-to-be that she would have to cancel the big day because she 'did not understand the implications of getting married'. Yesterday, Miss Robertson, who is five months pregnant, said the decision was cruel. She said: 'I am still so upset about everything. I know what marriage is. It is when two folks want to spend the rest of their lives together. I love Mark and I want to get married to him.' Miss Robertson, of Dunfermline, Fife, has been in the care of her grandmother since she was nine months old after her parents were unable to look after her, with her welfare overseen by social workers at Fife council. In January this year, she met Mr McDougall, a 25-year-old artist from Arbroath. When Miss Robertson became pregnant, they began making wedding plans. Mr McDougall said their nightmare began last Thursday when two social workers arrived at the flat they have shared for the past four months. He said: 'We were about to go out and make final arrangements for our wedding when we heard a frantic rapping at the door. 'When we opened it, two social workers burst in and told us that the marriage was illegal because Kerry has learning difficulties and did not possess the capacity to make such a decision. 'Kerry burst into tears. 'But despite arguing with the social workers that we loved one another and didn't want our baby to be born to unmarried parents, they wouldn't budge.' snip Helen Townsend of Fife council said: 'We cannot discuss details of individual cases for reasons of confidentiality.' Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1212867/Youre-intelligent-marry-bride-told.html#ixzz0QshTAdPc What's the odds of the bastards trying to seize the baby at birth? I wonder if not being married to her at the time of the birth will affect the fathers parental rights making seizing the child easier for them? I would not be at all surprised to hear more of this.

Bestbear- 09-12-2009

Do the SS have the legal right to stop weddings? And if they do, what law gives them this right? We are getting mire like Nazi Germany every day! If these Sturmbannfuhrers had turned up at my church with such a demand I would have ejected them very swiftly!

Bulldog- 09-12-2009

Do the SS have the legal right to stop weddings? And if they do, what law gives them this right? We are getting mire like Nazi Germany every day! If these Sturmbannfuhrers had turned up at my church with such a demand I would have ejected them very swiftly! Under Scottish law, a registrar may refuse to marry a couple if he believes one or both the parties lack the mental capacity to understand what the institution of marriage is about. In a highly unusual step, the registrar at Dunfermline Register Office refused to sanction the marriage after Fife council wrote a letter of objection.

Bestbear- 09-12-2009

Thank you Dog ... I should have read the whole article before responding! :oops:

Bulldog- 10-20-2009

As predicted Social services 'to take baby from teenager deemed too stupid to marry' A mother-to-be, who was banned from marrying after social workers said she is not intelligent enough, is to have her baby taken away immediately after giving birth. Kerry Robertson, 17, who has mild learning difficulties, has been told that she will not be allowed to bring up her own child, who she has already named Ben. Last month Miss Robertson was prevented from marrying her fiancé Mark McDougall, 25, after council officials claimed that she “did not understand the implications of getting married”. She has now been warned that she will only be allowed a few hours with her baby, which is due in January, before it is taken into foster care. After hearing the news, Miss Robertson, of Dunfermline, Fife, who is 26 weeks pregnant, said: “I couldn't believe it. I am so upset – I can't stop crying.” Mr McDougall, an artist, said he wants to take on full responsibility for his son but claims that he is powerless because he is not married to Miss Robertson. He added: “Social Services are ruining our lives. As we are not married – because social workers would not let us marry – it seems I have no rights as a dad at all. “Kerry's gran is trying to apply for custody of Ben but social services have already told us it is unlikely she will be successful. We feel helpless.” snip http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/politics/scotland/6365363/Social-services-to-take-baby-from-teenager-deemed-too-stupid-to-marry.html Disgusting.

Bestbear- 10-20-2009

Who will get a grip on the actions of these basdids? Every time I read about things like this I get apoplectic. I have several times written to Directors of Social Services, and also to the elected members who are supposed to scrutinise them. I get no joy from this, but if everyone did it I suppose it could make a difference? Or not .......

Bulldog- 10-20-2009

I have considered starting a charity to defend and support people in this position. Not sure it'd attract much funding though.

Clarkey49- 10-20-2009

This is utterly and completely stupid. To take someones baby away from them and prevent them from getting married. It's appalling when you consider that social services failed to prevent what happened to Baby P and other cases...

Bestbear- 10-20-2009

Welcome Clarkey! Good to have you with us! :D

Bulldog- 10-21-2009

Yep, greetings Clarkey

Bestbear- 10-21-2009

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